In the fall of 2010, a group of sophomores at Sarah Lawrence College, a small liberal arts school 12 miles north of New York City, moved into a campus building called Slonim Woods 9. It was a laid-back college house – dirty kitchen, a lot of hanging out and being high, a half-thought plan to dump sand in one room and make a beach. So it was weird when one of the roommates, Talia Ray, invited her dad, Lawrence “Larry” Ray, to crash on their couch after he was released from prison on vague charges, but not, as several explain in a new Hulu docuseries, that weird. Ray made steak dinners, regaled his daughter’s friends with tales of his time in the marines and psy-ops for the CIA, promised to help some maximize their potential. It was off-putting to some, entrancing to others. Over the course of several months, Ray seemed to gain control over several of the housemates – first his daughter Talia’s friend Isabella Pollok, then Talia’s boyfriend Santos Rosario, then another, then another. “Everyone thought Talia’s dad was weird, but then one by one he would get them alone, and suddenly he’s the greatest thing to happen to them,” says Raven Juarez, whose best friend and boyfriend both fell under Ray’s spell and cut off contact with her, in Stolen Youth: Inside the Cult at Sarah Lawrence. “I had a lot of theories, but none of them were are horrible as what was actually to come.” As several survivors of Ray’s abuse and former Sarah Lawrence students attest, the depth of Ray’s depravity, first reported by a viral and genuinely unbelievable New York Magazine story in April 2019, was so much worse than anyone imagined. Over more than a decade, Ray isolated several of the roommates, as well as Rosario’s two older sisters, and derailed their lives through psychological manipulation, sexual coercion, financial extortion and routine emotional and physical abuse, the scope and shadow of which exceed what a flurry of headlines about the “Sarah Lawrence sex cult” could capture. The three-part Hulu series recounts the beats of the original article from the perspective of several who were there, and extends far past it, into the long aftermath of his abuse and deprogramming from his conditioning. “What’s real? What’s the truth? I don’t know,” says Felicia Rosario, Santos’s older sister, who was still living with Ray when the New York article went live, in one of several sitdowns with film-makers in the months following his arrest in 2020. (Ray, now 63, was convicted on federal charges including sex trafficking, extortion and racketeering in April 2022; he was sentenced last month to 60 years in prison.) “He took away my career, my friends, my family. He took everything away so that all that’s left is me to him,” Rosario says later in the third episode, her perspective sharpened with time. “The rest of me just … there was no rest of me.” Stolen Youth sensitively outlines how Ray courted and corrupted attention, how he identified and manipulated insecurities and openness, how he warped therapy speak into psychological manipulation, almost entirely in the words of the people he controlled and the parents and friends he isolated them from. “Part of the goal of the project was to help people understand how this was possible,” the show’s director, Zach Heinzerling, told the Guardian. Ray’s trial released to the public ample video and audio evidence of Ray’s abuse: harrowing footage of Felicia breaking down in paranoid fear of assassins out to get her, of Santos crumbling as Ray berates him for “breaking” tools he did not touch, of Ray hitting their friend Daniel Levin for unknown “infractions.” “This footage of them was released to the public, a lot of news sources were just playing these videos, Isabella was listed as Larry’s lieutenant and wife, and there’s very little understanding of her story and how she got there,” said Heinzerling. “The same is true of all of them – it became kind of like a headline-grabby story.” It was Levin who contacted Heinzerling in 2019, shortly after the article was published, to create a documentary from the perspective of and aimed at survivors, particularly Santos, his sister Yalitza and Claudia Drury, whose whereabouts were unknown, and Felicia and Pollok, who at the time were still living with Ray in New Jersey. “I wanted it to just be the inside story and for the audience to really feel like they were in the shoes of these individuals,” said Heinzerling. “So you can really understand what it means, what gaslighting means, or what love-bombing means, or many of these heady terms mean.” (The Rosario siblings, Levin and Pollok appear throughout the series; Talia Ray and Drury, who testified in Ray’s trial that he coerced her into prostitution for years to pay millions for fictional property damage, declined to participate.) The first episode conjures the headspace of being 18 again – technically an adult, but in many ways unformed, adrift, malleable. “You’re still very much figuring out so many different things, and this is the first time you’re away from your parents, and you’re encouraged to make new relationships with older people,” said Heinzerling. Ray, a shadowy figure who never actually served in the marines, exuded coveted experience, ambition and curiosity. Santos recalls how reclusive Pollok, reeling from a breakup, seemed “vibrant” after spending hours “talking” with Ray behind closed doors, how he found Ray’s assuredness comforting after years of secretly struggling with depression. When Levin confided that he was struggling in a tumultuous relationship and questioning his sexuality, Ray shut it down with straightforward advice and hard lines: you’re not gay, dump your girlfriend. “He’s like, here is how to be an adult,” Levin says, recalling a feeling of empowerment and control that lured him in; soon after, he moved in with Ray, Santos Rosario, Drury, Pollok and Talia Ray in the one-bedroom apartment Ray occupied on the Upper East Side. The first two episodes present, through Ray’s extensive audio and video footage (he taped most calls and filmed the “therapy” sessions used to bully and abuse his victims), the descent into Ray’s sadistic manipulation and paranoid delusions; over years, he convinced Santos, Drury and Yalitza that they had poisoned him, Talia, Felicia and Isabella (who were both sexually and romantically involved with Ray). The third begins in aftermath – with Ray’s arrest in January 2020, Felicia Rosario and Pollok were left alone in a cluttered, partially destroyed New Jersey house, still isolated from their families and still convinced of Ray’s persecution by “corrupt” government figures. In an interview with film-makers weeks after his arrest, both state matter-of-factly that they’d been poisoned. It’s a discomforting watch, seeing the grip of Ray’s manipulation in real time. “When someone is in a coercive mindset, it’s important to meet them where they are, and sympathize with their situation, as they are seeing it,” said Heinzerling of filming Pollok and Felicia Rosario over several years, in various states of attachment to Ray’s coercive thinking. “Over time, the process of listening to someone tell their story, from a non-judgmental stance, can have the effect of making them reconsider the story they are telling, or allow them to face what they are potentially trying to hide within themselves.” Heinzerling connected Isabella and Felicia to a nonprofit for legal and housing support and, offered to film as a “mirror to one’s own experience,” easing back into everyday life. Over time, Felicia slowly detaches from Ray’s conditioning, first through doubt, then re-establishing memories corrupted by Ray, reconnecting with her old self; a Harvard and Columbia-educated doctor, she was weeks away from completing her psychiatry residency in LA when Ray convinced her she had to flee his persecutors and join him in New York. Eventually, she reframes her time with Ray and reconnects with her siblings and parents, Dominican immigrants to the Bronx who sold their house to pay for Ray’s extortions. Pollok, often referred to in headlines as Ray’s “lieutenant,” continues to see him as a benevolent figure and refuses contact from her mother, who appears in the series and hasn’t seen her daughter since 2010. On camera, Pollok stresses over her dwindling legal options; last September, she pleaded guilty to conspiring to launder money with Ray and faces five years in prison. Others – Levin, Santos and Yalitza Rosario, the friends who see the red flags much clearer in retrospect – are still processing what happened, reconciling the people they were before Ray with everything that happened after. “I hope it adds to a conversation about what it means to be in a cult, or what it means to be in a cultic relationship,” said Heinzerling. “The methods that are used are actually much more akin to a domestic violence or domestic abuse relationship,” he said. Unlike other famous cults – Nxivm (as seen in HBO’s The Vow), Jonestown – there was little ideological or financial motive to Ray’s crimes. Control was the end unto itself. The series aims to help viewers see how “young and energetic and impressionable they were,” said Heinzerling. “They were just going to college. So helping audiences understand that this could be you or this can happen to anyone is helpful and hopefully prevents things like this from happening again.” Stolen Youth: Inside the Sarah Lawrence cult is now available on Hulu in the US and Disney+ in Australia, with a UK date to be announced Information and support for anyone affected by rape or sexual abuse issues is available from the following organisations. In the US, Rainn offers support on 800-656-4673. In the UK, Rape Crisis offers support on 0808 802 9999. In Australia, support is available at 1800Respect (1800 737 732). Other international helplines can be found at ibiblio.org/rcip/internl.html